No matter how sinful and sick it is considered to cheat on your partner and indulge in infidelity, some women do it.
They cheat, lie and date multiple men simultaneously. No man wants to fall for a woman dearly only to find her cheating on him. But life sometimes is nothing more than a rude shock, and you may as well be that guy being cheated on, no matter how faithful you have been to her. To spare yourself from such indignity, read on to know more about the tell-tale signs of Your Girlfriend Cheating on You.
1. Emotionally Unavailable
Have you found your girlfriend to be emotionally blank and unavailable lately? If yes, chances are she is sharing her emotions with someone else. Of course you don’t need to jump onto the ‘cheating’ bandwagon asap. Maybe she is stressed or simply over-worked. But don’t let such emotional unavailability go unnoticed. Ask her what’s going on and why she appears to be so distant. Confront her, albeit mildly the first time. Get her to talk to you. A good conversation will help bring clarity to the situation.
2. Cancelling Plans & Constant Absenteeism
If your girlfriend is cancelling plans way too often, is unavailable to talk, and is in fact avoiding making plans with you in the first place, beware! For all you know she is devoting that time to someone else. All these are sure shot signs that something is amiss. You need to put your detective hat on and look into what is actually going on?!
3. Notice Something Different?
Many-a-times, you don’t have to be Sherlock to unlock The Great Girlfriend Cheating Mystery. Just look for everyday signs. Small stuff like – is she constantly chatting on the phone while out with you, does she go off into a corner to attend to / make a call, is she generally not interested in anything you say anymore, is she avoiding discussing important relationship matters with you? If the answer to all these questions is a yes, then boy-o-boy, you are in for a rude shock. Confront her and get her to tell you the truth. Don’t play along and expect things to fall into place automatically.
4. Talk to her best friend
While going round her back and talking to her best friend is not the best thing to do, do it if you find yourself in a rather desperate situation. Don’t bitch your girlfriend out to her bestie; share your concern and ask for help and guidance. With their help you can uncover what is actually going on, deal with the situation as it unfolds and decide on the future of the relationship.
5. Follow her
Avoid doing this at all and any costs. It is a cheap act and lacks dignity. But if no other option presents itself, plan smartly and follow tactfully. There is no other solid proof than catching her red handed. Once you know for sure what the truth is, you can be relieved of this constant state of paranoia and can decide whether you want continue with the relationship or not